I tried to go about my days as usual.
That was what I had always done when something worried me.
I made breakfast.
I took care of the ordinary things that could not be postponed.
I asked Ethan whether he needed anything, and I listened to his answers even when they were too short to tell me much.
From the outside, our lives probably looked the same.
Inside my head, everything had changed.
I was listening for details.
A word he might repeat.
A name he might mention.
Anything that could help me understand why 3025 had become so important to him.
I did not want to turn our home into a place where every conversation became an interrogation.
I remembered being young myself.
I remembered how easily concern could sound like suspicion when it came from someone who loved you.
I had promised myself that I would never make Ethan feel he had to explain every thought in his head.
But I had never imagined that promise would leave me so uncertain when he seemed to be struggling.
One evening, he came home and set his backpack beside him.
He did not put it down carelessly.
He placed it on the chair and kept one hand on the top.
I noticed the gesture immediately.
He noticed me noticing.
For a second, neither of us spoke.
Then he asked whether there was anything to eat.
I told him what I had made.
He nodded and went to the kitchen.
I followed a few moments later.
He was standing by the counter, looking at nothing in particular.
I could see the tension in his jaw.
"Ethan, you know you can talk to me."
He turned toward me.
"I know."
"Then why does it feel like you're keeping something from me?"
He looked away.
"I just have things to figure out."
The answer was quiet.
It was not rude.
That somehow made it harder.
I wanted to ask what those things were, but I could hear how close he was to shutting down the conversation.
So I asked something else.
"Are you safe?"
He looked at me again.
"Yes, Mom."
I searched his face.
I wanted to believe him.
I also wanted him to understand that I was not asking because I thought he was incapable of making decisions.
I was asking because I loved him and because something about the situation frightened me.
"All right," I said.
He gave me a small nod.
Then he went back to his room.
I stood at the counter, staring at the food I had prepared.
It was a ridiculous thing to feel hurt about, but I did.
I had asked one simple question and received one simple answer.
Still, I felt as though I had been pushed away from a door I had spent my life believing would always remain open.
The following day, I decided I would stop asking about 3025.
If Ethan wanted to tell me, he would.
That was what I told myself.
For a while, the decision brought relief.
I no longer watched his face every time he came through the door.
I no longer tried to connect every silence to something he had not explained.
I reminded myself that he deserved room to think.
But there is a difference between giving someone space and convincing yourself that you no longer have the right to worry.
I crossed that line more than once.
Whenever Ethan left with his backpack, I told myself not to make anything of it.
Whenever he returned looking tired, I reminded myself that I had promised to trust him.
Whenever I thought about asking another question, I remembered the way his expression changed when I did.
So I stayed quiet.
It did not make me less afraid.
It only made the fear quieter.
Then the situation began to feel different.
I could not point to one particular thing.
There was no argument that explained it.
No sudden announcement.
Just a growing sense that Ethan was carrying something that had become too heavy for him to manage without help.
I noticed the way he sometimes sat without turning on the television.
I noticed how quickly he put his phone away when I entered the room.
I noticed that he seemed relieved whenever I changed the subject.
Those details could have meant anything.
I knew that.
But I also knew they were part of a pattern.
I had spent too long telling myself that each small thing was harmless to ignore how they felt together.
One night, I found him sitting alone.
His backpack rested beside his feet.
He was looking at his hands.
I almost walked past him.
Then I stopped.
"Do you want me to sit with you?"
He looked up, surprised.
For a moment, he seemed younger than he had in weeks.
"Sure."
I sat down.
Neither of us spoke right away.
I let the silence remain.
I wanted him to know that he did not have to produce an explanation simply because I was there.
After a while, I asked him what he had been thinking about.
He rubbed his palms together.
"Some things are hard to explain."
I nodded.
"I understand that."
He gave a small, uncertain laugh.
"No, I don't think you do."
The words hurt.
I tried not to show it.
He was not saying he did not love me.
He was saying there was something I did not understand.
Those were not the same thing, although in that moment I struggled to remember the difference.
I looked at him and wondered how many times I had mistaken his silence for a lack of trust when it might have been the only way he knew to handle something frightening.
"What would make it easier?" I asked.
He did not answer.
I waited.
He looked toward his backpack.
Then he shook his head.
"I don't know."
That was the closest he had come to admitting that something was wrong.
It was not much.
But it was enough to make me understand that my son was not simply being secretive for the sake of it.
He was struggling with something he could not yet put into words.
I wanted to reach for him.
I wanted to tell him that whatever it was, we would face it together.
But I was afraid of making a promise before I knew what he needed from me.
So I stayed beside him.
Eventually, he stood and picked up his bag.
"I'm going to bed."
"All right."
He paused.
"Thanks for sitting with me."
I watched him walk away.
That small sentence stayed with me longer than the conversation itself.
He had thanked me for doing something that required almost nothing.
Sitting beside my own son.
I wondered how often he had needed that and how often I had been too busy trying to get answers to simply be there.
The next morning, I made a decision.
I would stop treating the number as the main problem.
3025 was only a number.
Whatever it meant, the more important question was what had made Ethan feel he needed to keep returning.
I could not force him to explain it.
I could not solve something I did not understand.
But I could make sure he knew that my concern was not a punishment.
I could let him speak without immediately interrupting.
I could listen to an answer I did not like without turning it into an argument.
That was what I promised myself.
I did not know whether it would be enough.
I only knew that I could no longer keep waiting for the perfect moment to become the mother I wanted to be.
Because the perfect moment was not coming.
And Ethan was still carrying his backpack.
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